Yes, people in the videos we watch may be quite sexually aroused, but the point of these videos are to 'sell' sex. This is simply to say, porn is not reality. Have you ever heard the expression, 'porn is porn'. But as an educator, I know that's not always true. on the one hand, many people will say if you enjoy gay porn, you must be gay.
There has always been some real debate about this. Especially from people under 18 years old. I am a gay man myself, but this question is more common than you might think. Questions like these are what made me interested in pursuing my career.